Friday, March 16, 2012

6 Things That Deplete Confidence Men


Men are often regarded as being superior when compared with women. But that does not mean they are not as sensitive and emotional, especially when it comes to confidence.

Can be very fragile male ego dah easily hurt, even more fragile than women. A number of studies as quoted by My Self Development shows, men were more difficult to foster confidence-if it is tainted, than women. These six things he could eliminate the confidence man quickly.
 
1. Financial Issues
Do not have enough money is a major factor in the male self-distrust. It has long been, a man regarded as the backbone of the family. Therefore, he sure will get good response from the family of a wife or girlfriend, if you earn enough or more. Men also feel valued if save enough money in your wallet or bank account
 
2. Too Dominant Couple
Domination is a word that is quite attached to the figure of a man. From the first, he was 'destined' to be more robust and so the ruler. If he is dating a woman who is too dominant in the relationship, could erase their confidence. Because it could make him look weak in front of his friends and others

3. Rejected
Rejection here are not always on the approach. But it could also rejection of his girlfriend's parents for their relationship, or a hostile attitude from the woman's family. Courtship built up quite a long time, but should break in the middle of the road can leave permanent scars on his ego and self-destructive beliefs
 
4. Betrayed
It took a long time for him to commit in a relationship or marriage. When the commitment was undermined because she had an affair, other than a broken heart, his confidence is also torn. Because he can not be considered a pretty good lover, so her partner turned to another man. Will not take long for him to cultivate his confidence and start another love story

5. Problems at Work / School
Most men want to be respected, including the time at work / school. Problems at work will make him feel so people are less able to do a good job. Therefore, most men are reluctant to talk about work / school to partner
 
6. Criticized in Public Places
Most men want to look like a leader when walking with his girlfriend in public. So when her boyfriend criticize or make jokes to discredit him in front of others, he will feel insulted and his confidence will fade